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About Royal Rabbi

Find the right rabbi for your wedding, your child's bar mitzvah, or your family's hardest week.

What we do

A respectful, well-organised officiant marketplace. Rabbis and cantors list with their denomination, the ceremonies they perform, their position on interfaith and same-sex ceremonies stated openly so nobody has to ask uncomfortably, languages, travel radius, fees and availability. Families search, read real profiles, and book directly, with a video meeting arranged first because fit matters enormously here. For funerals, an urgent pathway with response within two hours, because that is the actual need. Ceremony planning resources and text options included.

Who we built it for

  • Families without a synagogue

    Jewish families across North America and the UK who are not synagogue members and have no rabbi to call when a lifecycle event arrives.

  • Interfaith couples

    Couples who need to know which rabbis will officiate an interfaith ceremony, without asking rabbi after rabbi.

  • Rabbis and cantors

    Officiants who want to list their ceremonies, positions, fees and availability, and choose between a monthly fee or a percentage of bookings.

The problem

Most Jewish families are unaffiliated, and when a wedding, a bar or bat mitzvah, a baby naming or a funeral arrives they have nowhere to start.

They call synagogues that serve members first, get no answer, and end up with whoever is available.

Interfaith couples face an additional barrier since not every rabbi will officiate, and asking is awkward and repeatedly disappointing.

Try it before anything else

The free officiant conversation check runs in your browser with no account. Answer questions about your ceremony and your family's wishes, and see what to settle or ask before you contact an officiant. Open it.

The one promise

The free tool on this site is genuinely free and genuinely useful. It does not withhold the answer behind an email form, it does not degrade after a trial, and it does not exist to harvest your data. If it helps you and you never pay us, that is a fine outcome.

Are you ready for a first conversation with a rabbi or cantor?

Answer sixteen questions about the ceremony, what matters to your family, what to ask and the practical arrangements. See what is already settled, and what to talk about together or ask an officiant next. Runs in your browser. No account, no card, no call.

Open the free tool

It runs in your browser. Royal Rabbi never sees your inputs.